The Good, the Bad, and the–Nope, That’s It

As modern, savvy, and reasonably well-educated human beings, we like to think that our opinions are based on truth and that we don't make a lot of assumptions.  But if we're honest with ourselves, we have to admit that we make one kind of assumption all the time, and it's an important one.  This one assumption is responsible for the vast majority of our misery and suffering. Continue reading “The Good, the Bad, and the–Nope, That’s It”

Human Doing vs. Human Being

I graduated second in my class in high school, and at the time I was thrilled because it meant I didn’t have to give the Valedictorian’s speech.  I was shy at the time, and had no idea what I would want to say to so many people, nor what advice I could offer.  Now, with 14 years of hard-earned wisdom under my belt, I have more than enough to say and know exactly what suggestion I would give. Continue reading “Human Doing vs. Human Being”

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